I have decided to go ahead and leave the names as they are. I totally understand the confusion on names and what not. I'm with ya, as I also sometimes have the same issues on other blogs with names.
I also have added the Crew to my sidebar. I did actually have this listing at one point in time and it disappeared due to my fiddlings with my template and I just never got around to re adding it. I'm sorry for not adding it back in and didn't realize what a handy little thing it is to have.
On this note, I'm off to run to the store for vegetable oil to make a birthday cake for a little big Bossyboy. My babys not such a baby anymore..sniff..